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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have read the post on this thread and based on the descriptions I can appreciate why some DW will not have sex with their DH.. But if there is nothing wrong with your DH and you will not have sex with him.. [b]Why not just let him go? 
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Sex with my DW started out bad and got worse after each child was born.  Now we have had no sex or any form of intimacy for over 8 years.  We have had talks and I have pointed out that she does not even hug me, but she walks away from the conversation.  She will not go to counseling.

I am in shape and I do more than my fair share around the house.  I have a job that allows me to make a high salary while still being flexible to be home to help with the family when needed.

I basically feel like I have been putting in a lot more than I have been getting in return from my marriage.. For at least 10 of our 20 year marriage.  I use to think that I would wait till my youngest was in college and get a divorce.  But now I am thinking of doing it sooner.

I am done with her as a spouse, but I need to still be friendly with her because I need to have a good co-parenting relationship with her..[/quote]

PP, this sounds like an awful situation, and I'm one of the PP wives who doesn't often have sex.

I don't understand what the bolded sentence means.  Are you waiting for her to say to you "Please leave me?"  Have you asked for a divorce or told her that you are moving out?  The way you phrase this makes it sound like she has all the power and you can't make a decision.

I'm definitely not advocating ending a marriage, but I'm not sure what it is you are looking for her to do.[/quote]

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