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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe keep a running list of things that "need" to get done but don't naturally fall witihin one person's line of responsibility (like writing a thank-you card for something). Post it on the fridge. Assign a name to each task and maybe a date, if applicable. That will help your DH see that each of you could/should be doing roughly half of these random tasks. When he starts to nag you for something he could do himself, say, "Put it on the list!" He'll feel like he's being heard about the need for X to get done. Realistic dates will encourage you both to actually get it done. Think of it like work: you end a meeting with a list of next steps, who's responsible, and a due date.[/quote]
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