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I am 38, he is 44 and we've been married 15 years.

He's gained a lot of weight, his stomach is enormous and it's a huge turn off.   He wears old underwear and t shirts with holes in it.   He wears cargo pants with cowboy boots.   It's just not attractive at all.

He's intentionally destroyed his career.   I don't want to get too specific but basically he has repeatedly pissed off various bosses/supervisors under the pretense of "protecting the little guy" (employees under him) which might seem admirable that he is looking out for others, but these "little guys" end up fine and Dh kills his career.   He will have no job in 2 months because of this.

I am the man in the relationship, or at least I feel like it.  *I pay the bills--he has no understanding of what we take in/what we pay out.  If anything were to happen to me, the electricity would get shut off and our house would go into foreclosure because he literally has no idea how to pay those bills.   
*He never takes me out on dates.   If we go anywhere, it's because I've suggested it, I have to remind him to go the ATM or to use a credit card to pay, etc.

It's just not worth the effort.   Sex with him isn't good.  Since this is non explicit, I won't go into details--but size and grooming issues here.

We don't use birth control for religious reasons.   I am VERY fertile  and he has always been VERY angry whenever I've gotten pregnant, telling me it's my fault.   With 4 kids, I've never once had that happy, excited "we're having a baby!" moment that you see on tv/movies.   I've only been screamed at.  Why should I have sex that is not enjoyable when I'm going to be "punished" for it a few weeks later?[/quote]

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