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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Two reasons.
1. I hate my body right now.  3yr post-baby and I'm horribly out of shape and very very self conscious about my size 12 body.
2. He isn't high touch except when he wants sex.  I've tried to tell him that I'd appreciate the every day types of hug, kiss, caress for no reason as that generally makes me feel treasured and attractive.  Even pre-baby this wasn't him.  now that I'm more self conscious, I feel like I need more than ever to know that I am attractive to him not just when he really wants sex.

I love him.  He's handsome and in shape but our sex life is a mess.[/quote]

I'm with you on #2, and I've told DH this over and over again. I can always tell when he wants to have sex because he's suddenly very physically affectionate. It doesn't feel genuine--it feels like I'm back in college and some guy at the bar is trying to get me to go home with him.

I also SAH, and my kids are young and all over me all day. I have someone hanging on me most of the day. Once they're in bed, I just want to be alone and have my body to myself. I'm also pregnant, so that magnifies the feeling of just wanting my body to myself for a few hours. I'm trying to make sure we have sex once a week, but some times it's a struggle and I know DH wishes I would initiate things once in awhile.[/quote]

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