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[quote=Anonymous]It's not clear to me if  MIL is inviting you and you stay for free or everyone is paying for the vacation home.  If you are there as a guest of your MIL, I think it is tough to advocate for the bigger room.  To some extent it is either first come, first serve or looking for the host to make a logistical/somewhat equitable decision on where the guests stay.

As someone mentioned you can shorten your time I.e. 3 days instead of a week, stay someplace else the whole time, stay someplace else part of the time ...maybe on the back end so if there isn't enough space by day 2 you can stay at the hotel, don't go every year...

If you are feeling bold you can mention how thankful you are that MIL has been inviting your family but now that the kids are growing up you all can't fit in the small room so you are going to get a hotel nearby this year and stop by the house in the morning.  Unless MIL offers to change the sleeping arrangements, what can she say? Not to say she hasn't realized this is happening but how can she insist you stay at the house with a straight face knowing people will be sleeping in the hallway and it isn't a case of everyone sleeping in the hallways/floors.[/quote]

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