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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, I drop my DH off at the metro every morning on the way to taking kids to school.  This morning I was tired and cranky and started bitching to my DH about all the things I need to do around the house and dropped in "and on top of that I have to be your taxi."  He said, "There's a bus stop right there.  I'll get out.  I don't need you to drive me." Well, now I am really pissed 'cause I feel he doesn't appreciate my driving him.  What do you think?  Was his an asshole response?  Or did I provoke him? Should I apologize for what I said? [/quote]

Op I am probably one of the few who also drive DH to the metro in the morning. You vented; he over reacted. If you drive him everyday, you might want to think it over: is it causing resentment? Do you feel it is too much? There are times when I don't mind taking DH and there are others when it really is inconvenient. We have worked it out that from time to time, it is better to take a cab. Really helps the marriage. You can always rise above and apologize. I would like to know how many of the PPs who said you were just beyond rude actually take a person every day. It can get wearing.[/quote]

I am sorry but this was not "venting."  She was having a bad morning and was not up to par.  Fine.  Happens to the best of us.  She wants to "vent" about all she has do...fine.  But her smack at him was designed to make him feel like crap.  It was pointed.  She was bitchy and wanted to spread it around.  He did not overeact!  She was weary of driving him but maybe he was also weary of her bitching the whole ride.  He may have had a bad morning too and realized that this was going to escalate.

I have been married for 20 years and one "rule" my DH and stick to - do not start sh!t in the morning.  Folks are tired and it ruins your entire day. Conversations like this should be had when you bith are rested and calm.   [/quote]

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