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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So sorry OP.  My husband cheated on me in both pregnancies (although I didn't find out about #1 until I was in the middle of #2).

Although the reason for my ex's cheating didn't have anything to do with my pregnancy, I will say that he was very anxious about his ability to cope with a newborn and he was very worried about hurting me or the child by sex during pregnancy.  But, again, this wasn't the cause of the infidelity.

I would take a two-track approach.  First, keep a closer eye on DH and his secretive behavior and drinking.  Don't say anything each time, just watch and look for confirmation that what he is telling you is true or untrue.  Check the cellphone bill.  It is very common for cheaters to deny the cheating and try to gaslight the partner.  I only figured out what was happening by checking the cellphone bill and by looking at the car mileage to see if it matched what DC said he was doing (it was wildly off).

Second, ask you DC what's up.  Don't mention cheating, but ask about the increased drinking, no sex and secretive behavior.  Say that you're concerned, that new baby is a stressful time, and just leave it open ended and see what he says.  
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OMG YOU IGNORAMUS! Quit insisting he's having an affair when you have NO IDEA! You're a home wrecker in your own special way. What if he's not having an affair, but people like you plant that shitty seed in her head? You. Have. No. Facts. Just your own sad history, which isn't OP's history.  How about if you just suggest OP goes Bobbitt on her husband and chops his dick off? How would that suit you? [/quote]

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