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[quote=Anonymous]Can you just sit down with him and ask what is going on? In an open-ended way, not with the assumption that you know what it is. You might be right, maybe he is cheating: but there could be so many other causes for this, too. Maybe he's keeping a problem or concerns hidden. After all, isn't that what you are doing right now? Maybe there's something off between you right now and neither of you has admitted it? Maybe he has feelings about his upcoming father role that he doesn't feel right voicing? Who knows. I wouldn't assume the worst. And even if the worst is true, it's still best to find out what is going on and why. Some situations are salvageable and some aren't. (But that's just my opinion; I feel I could forgive an indiscretion depending on the circumstance, particularly if DH was forthcoming and didn't intend for it to become the new norm.) [/quote]
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