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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]my wife was committed to bjs/hjs during pregnancy.  it sufficed and i appreciated the effort.

forgetting about your husbands needs altogether and acting like you have no responsibility to him reeks of problems and future problems![/quote]

No, it reeks of DH being selfish and having ZERO interest in her needs.[/quote]

why does the wife's needs take primacy?

if she rejects intimacy and he has vowed to only receive intimacy from her - what is he to do then?

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Because she just gave birth 21 days ago and she is physically a mess. Her body is recovering, and she is meeting all the physical demands of her children. Grown up Dad's desire for sex takes a back seat now, sorry.[/quote]

this woman can't even be bothered to let her husband touch her at all.

that has nothing to do with the physical tolls of child birth.

no one is suggesting she receive penetrative sex before being cleared by the doctor, at least six weeks out.

but how bout some physical contact at all?

if wife is unwilling to provide any physical contact at all, husband's vows of monogamy should be temporarily lifted[/quote]

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