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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]lol I should have seen the harshness coming. Is everyone here so perfect? Did you guys stop getting drunk at 22? Never done something you regret? I got drunk on NYE like a large percentage of the adult population.  Big deal. What about getting drunk one night says I have a problem with alcohol?  Prior to that night I can't recall my last truly drunk night.

Thanks to those who answered decently.  I too was worried an apology might make things more awkward or that i was using it as excuse to communicate unnecessarily.  To the rest of you who are so worried about my DH and my friends,  get your heads out of your asses. Of course my marriage isn't happy and perfect. My DH and I are completely open with each other about everything.  I know who his little crushes are, he knows mine. Well my one and only. Our mutual friend who lives 4 hours a way and we see every couple months at best. While there might be many things in my life that would indicate therapy,  this isn't one of them.[/quote]

I understand the harshness becaause your question is misguided.  You blow off any potential feelings your DH may have (he laughed it off?) and are agonizing about what the friend thinks.  Trust me, your DH thinks more about this than you want to acknowledge and your priority should be working on your marriage and reassuring him.  Look at it this way.  If your crush had not stopped you, you likely would have been willing and ready to screw him.  The saving grace was that he did not want to.  No judgment here....I just think your DH's feelings about the incident should be the priority. [/quote]

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