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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here. Another one of these "validate my side of the argument" questions with nowhere near enough information.

In a vacuum, with just the information given:you moved around furniture in a guest room which implies this room is only used by guests and didn't involve buying furniture, etc., then yeah, the answer you got before - "Angry? Get a life, it's just furniture" - is exactly right.

But you know, if you went out and bought furniture without consulting/conferring/alerting your spouse it would be a dick move.  My wife and I are in the middle of buying new stuff for our living room - and we have spent nearly as much as I spent on my last motorcycle - if I went out and just dropped that kind of dough on a new bike without even talking to her about it...whoa!  SHTF!!!  This has reminded me just how crazy expensive furniture is.

If it isn't just a guest room and it doubles as his office or something..then again, yes, you definitely should've consulted him.

My wife is much shorter than I am and she is constantly suggesting furniture arrangements which are crowded and cluttered - she doesn't notice this because she has a really short stride (she is like the anti-ADA interior designer) - while I have to always be careful not to walk into or bump things.  Drives me nuts.  Yes, I get annoyed when she just goes and does this without talking to me.

No, I do not get angry, but I wouldn't just haul off and change the curtains or re-arrange pictures without asking her.  And not because I'm a man and don't care about or do any of that stuff - I was a bachelor who was perfectly able to competently decorate my own house before I met her.  [/quote]

OP here. It was literally just that. A guest room that never got fully unpacked during the move. Room was cleaned, boxes unpacked, and furniture rearranged to make accessing closet easier.

For those who are wondering why I am posting here ...this is a relationship forum ffs. I got my husbands reaction. He was pissed off. Which I thought was ridiculous and I told him that. I was just curious about whether I was out of line to not ask or discuss precisely where furniture should be placed. No other man I have ever known has cared at all about hone decor. [/quote]

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