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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's important enough that we actually changed our will. Our first choice, DH's brother and his wife, accepted the role happily and then never paid one second's interest to the kids even though we lived 1.5 hours away. I instigated all get-togethers and they rarely showed up or agreed to get together. When my older child was 5 we arrived to a family event and he pointed at DH's brother and said "Hey, that guy looks like Daddy!" My child didn't even know who he was! We changed the wills the next week to my sister who is younger and unmarried and a little flakey but is a good, loving aunt who will try her best. I thought that was more important than the "stable" BIL and SIL. Love was more important.[/quote]
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