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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you help your wife out at home? Maybe she's overwhelmed with housework/chores?[/quote] Puhleeze! Why is this old canard always brought up when DWs stop being fun to be around. Let me let you all in on a little secret my mother learned that made her happy and kept the family happy: the house does not need to perfect. As my Uncle Olaf used to say I'd you want to see me come visit anytime, if you want to see my house make an appointment. Considering I work 12 hour days and she is free from 7:30 - 4:00 pm, she has plenty of time for her chores. She just has poor time management skills.[/quote] I know - this is so old. At some point people will clue in that just like men women can have all kinds of personalities, all kinds of struggles, all kinds of strengths and weaknesses, can make mistakes, be negative, take responsibility - all independent of men. they can be sticks in the mud, or party animals, they can be rays of sunshine or dark clouds of doom. So many on here still define women by the actions of men - if a woman is anything positive or good - she did it despite men, if she is anything less than perfect - the problem is a man. As a woman I absolutely hate this attitude towards women (and men). It is pretty much mysogyny and misandry all rolled into one. It presents women as being weak and incapable of being anything but who men make them to be, and men as the doer of all wrong. [/quote]
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