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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what if she is a "good girl" who followed all the rules. Have a little compassion and understanding of human suffering.

Wow, OP, I am so sorry to hear about your lay off and even worse your cheating husband. I got laid off as well and my relative has serious cancer so I understand some of your pain. It sounds like you don't have children with this Neanderthal man. Thank goodness for that. I'm sure you will land on your feet. Sending good wishes your way. (Ignore the jealous haters)[/quote]

Oh, I do have some compassion - sucks to have life blow up.  But I also don't think she's well served with a lot of "oh woe is me" - it always takes two to tango and she will be best served not worrying about what dick moves he pulled and paying attention to the part she can control - what part she played in arriving where she is.

Not trying to be unduly harsh, as another poster mentioned, it doesn't sound like kids are involved, so she can make a clean break from this guy, start over with her career and her romantic life, and make sure to examine what mistakes she made.

OP - I've made plenty of my own..welcome to being just another human being - and take some solace in that: we are all just human beings, with some dirt under our nails and fuck-ups in our past.  Don't be fooled by the illusion of the mail-order fairy tale. My ire is directed at the fairy tail not you.[/quote]

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