Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Tell wife of plans for divorce?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I would make some plans before you have that conversation with her. Make sure all your accounts, files and finances are in order. Make copies of all your statements and have all the paperwork ready. Keep a copy of everything in a safe location outside of the house. Know exactly where you stand financially. If you have a concern that she is hiding money try and make a paper trail of that. Do you have separate or joint accounts? Who manages the finances? Seeing as you have already had conversations about divorce - this isn't out of the blue but it is still always a shock when you move from talking about it to doing it. You need to have the conversation that says that - we have talked about it, time to act on it. Just know that as soon as you have that conversation she is likely to run to a lawyer/bank and do everything she can to 'protect' her herself and her assets. You should speak to a lawyer as well so you know exactly what you can legally do to do the same. Get through the holidays then talk to her about it. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics