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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the OP. I feel guilty because my DH and I do make a very good income. But who knows about the future and our savings come from living below our means. [/quote] What you earn is IRRELEVANT. Your mother's behaviour, expectations and lifestyle is dsyfunctional and it is not up to you to pay for it. Matter of fact, it is irresponsible of you to continue to do so. You need to provide for your family's current and future needs. Your mother needs to do her best to do the same. If she was willing to get a better job, learn how to budget and save, then I could understand you providing occassional assistance. You cannot co-sign on crazy, I know -- been thru this with a now deceased parent. Understand this: YOU CANNOT MAKE SOMEONE BE SOMEONE THEY ARE NOT! Set clear boundaries. P.S. -- send your sister this thread, she is evidently caught up in the unhealthy cycle. Her helping is CRIPPLING your mother.[/quote]
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