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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think what the OP wants is a "four-six" man.

6' feet tall 
6-figure salary
6-pack
6" cock

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I eventually ended up with that without meaning to, had good instinct. At the time friends said I could do better, that I was reaching below my level. 20 years on, he is rising and has become massively good looking( no more nerd with suspenders)  and I am on my way down. Now that he seasoned, women checks him out all the time but he is woefully unaware. Meanwhile,  I have gotten the high end house, the car, the vacations, the fine jewelry, kids and I business class travel, club membership and I never have to ask or remind him of anything I want.  I am definitely on my way down while he gets better looking each year that passes yet, he thinks the sun rise and set on me LOL. He definitely has the swag to get a better, newer model. I wonder if he is going to wake up one day and decide I'm a hag, however, he has always been more attached to me than me to him. [/quote]

Why don't you work on your self-esteem.  Nothing more unattractive than low self-esteem in a woman. [/quote]

I do not have low self esteem, and I don't need to fakely think I'm all that either. I am middle age so I'm being realistic. He has increasingly got better looking since our 20's. When we met he was overweight, badly dressed, with a terrible haircut. But now he is tailored suits, washboard stomach, a mature face handsome and so on. Now, I get complements all the time by friends and strangers about how good looking he is. I can honestly say he is mostly unaware of his looks. He has gotten better looking than I am. You all would think I am lazy and he's an idiot if you knew all the things he has done for me. He brags to anyone who will listen that I'm the reason we are successful, when it is actually his drive and persistent. [/quote]

what does your husband do? i think you're being totally unfair to yourself.[/quote]

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