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[quote=Anonymous]Abusive to be pissed about the pen cap being off, the lotion mess, etc.? No. Abusive to say he doesn't want the kids to grow up like their own mother, for any anger-based reason? Absolutely. Something tells me there's more to this story. Meticulous people paired with more casual people can be a volatile mix. While it sounds like OP's spouse is prone to overreacting, it also sounds like OP doesn't do the best job of communicating (events or needs). For example, a simple conversation about the bread paddle, or a note with a warning, would've prevented that problem. Still no reason to play the "I hope the kids aren't like you" card. That's just shitty. Angry, frustrated, or otherwise, that's below the belt. Counseling, OP. Get to the heart of whatever's got him so stressed out that he's flipping out over pen caps. Get some better communication skills for both of you, and learn to compromise. This isn't about the pen cap at all.[/quote]
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