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[quote=Anonymous]We would get together for the 1 year olds birthday (rarely on the actual date) but outside of that I wouldn't expect my family to call on the actual day. A one year old doesn't know it is their birthday. So if they live away or you aren't getting together and there is absolutely no acknowledgment of the birthday - no card, no gift, no mention - a complete non event. Then I might find that hurtful. But if they acknowledge it in some way - coming over to celebrate, sending a card or gift or calling - it really doesn't matter if that is on the actual date or not. i don't think it would occur to anyone in my family to get upset or feel hurt by that in any way. We have never made the actual day really important - what is important to us is getting together and celebrating together. [/quote]
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