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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, your parents or in laws had no say in you choosing to have babies close together despite a (serious?) medical condition. Maybe that in and of itself is scary to them. If they shutdown with medical crisis then that would explain why they don't want to be there after birth. Second, you DO have a right to be upset about the situation, but try not to let the bad feelings pour over into your relationship with your husband. That will only make things worse because he is all the support you have. Finally, reach out and ask them to visit. Stop being so passive. If they turn you down then you've lost nothing, but my guess is they are waiting for your lead. After all, new Mom always calls the shots on family visits after birth. Did they visit with your first? How did you or they arrange that?[/quote]
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