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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Checking in, OP. How are you this morning? How was last night? What nice thing are you going to do for yourself today?[/quote]

Thanks for checking in.  The nice thing I did/am doing for myself today is getting some work done!  It's been nice to have a productive day for a change.

I mentioned the PPs' "you do you" construct to my older sister last night, and she (and I) loved it.  I have been trying to put that into action.  We both thought I gopt better advice here than I have been getting for $180 an hour.

I also have started looking into getting a new therapist.  As a happy side accident of this, I said to DH this morning that if he was not goig to go to the therapist that I researched for him (with a specialty in substance abuse issues) to please let me know because [u][b]I[/b][/u] would go to that person.  We discussed why I wanted to change from my therapist and I gave him a few examples without going into the alternate reality thing.  That's when he told me he went to see the therapist yesterday and has a follow up next week!  The PP who said to do my own thing was right.  He would never have told me that if I was checking up on him

We'll see.  We have a long road ahead of us and heaven only knows what he is telling the therapist.  Hopefully there will be progress.  If not, I know I have some hard choices to make.

Good luck to all the others struggling regardless of the reason.  Still loving all DCUMs today!  Happy Thanksgiving to you all![/quote]

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