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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks 16:59 and 17:08.  I will give that a try.  Obviously asking him about the therapist isn't working, so I'll just shut up and carry on like we are an alcohol free house and do my thing.  If he asks me if he can drink I'll tell him what I think, but I will do no unsolicited pushing.  As you say, if he can't do what he promised then that will become clear and I will have to decide what to do.

The year thing was really just to get him to see some shorter goal than forever, which is really my goal.  And I don't think it is right for me to go to a work thing and drink when I have told him I don't want him to.  So I will keep the agreement even if he doesn't.

Letting go is hard.  I'm not good at it because with everything else if I push hard and work hard I can get it done.  This isn't doing that.  So I will have to let go.  I am letting this consume me and I am not sleeping and not getting stuff done at work today because I am obsessing about this.  I should start a new thread:  How Does A Type A Person Learn To Let Go?  But you are right.  I have to "do me".  And I have to take care of me.  So off I go to try (well, after a quick respnse to the other PP with the garage drinker DH).[/quote]

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