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Reply to "Enjoy the present. If things go the way you fear, we'll deal with it then. (A vent)"
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[quote=Anonymous]You do you, OP. You go to your therapist, work on yourself, and maintain your sobriety. If a year without a drink is your goal, go get it. If/when he gets rude, just state the obvious: "I'm over here, doing my thing. You do you." And then stay out of it. You can't "make" him stop any more than you can "let" him drink. He's going to have to make his own choices and deal with the consequences. I suspect there's some co-dependent entanglement here. Once you disengage, you may find he's more likely to join you willingly. Sounds weird, but it's usually true. Take care of yourself. [/quote]
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