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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the excluded girl is mean and controlling, then I do teach my kids not to hang out with a girl like that.

But if the girl is nice like you say, then no, she shouldn't be excluded.[/quote]

OP here.  Honestly, the ones who exclude can be quite nasty and inappropriate.  One of their moms  calls everyone out on everything (helicopters), and tries to control her DDs every. single. life. moment.  It is exactly why her DD acts out (the girl can not breathe!), anyone could tell us that.

The excluded girl is probably too nice.  She once was one of the "mean, bossy" types, so the potential is there.  Mostly she just wants to hang out and be a kid, like the rest of them should.  The excluded girl is able to carry on a conversation with anyone.  The mean ones kind of give you an evil look, as if they hate you (probably like they hate their own mom, for putting them through what they do).

Honestly, I have heard one of the moms (of the large group) talking, and some of the moms can be really nasty and excluding, which is depressing (given their age).  I feel like some of the moms trash talk some of the girls, and the girls pick up on it.

I might be over thinking this, but it makes me uncomfortable that mid-elementary acts like this.  There is plenty of time for drama, it seems young to me.  It also bothers me because it seems (directly or indirectly) perpetuated by the moms.  [/quote]

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