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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The experience of a cancer family when there are young kids and a cancer family when there are no kids is WORLDS APART. Please do not post about how wonderful your spouse was when you went through cancer, if you didn't have young kids at home. It just does not compare at all to what OP and her DH are going through.[/quote]

Fuck you. [/quote]

no fuck you, it's the truth.[/quote]

Here is the thing, Children have needs.  They can not take care of themselves. Dealing with cancer does not change the children's needs. A 2 yo has diapers to change.  A 4 yo needs help getting dressed.  A ten yo may need help getting food for herself.  They can not drive themselves places.

When I am dealing with treatment, usually, my sister comes in to help.  My wife and my sister split the activities -- one will be there for DD, and one will be there for me.  Most of the time, I do not need help, but sometimes, I have needed help at the same time DD needed help.  Now that DD is approaching middle school, things may be different.[/quote]

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