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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OK, PP, why do you care if the MIL is on the account if she doesn't access it?  Really, let her save that face.  If you think she thinks you are bad DIL because you want to be taken care of, meaning you want to have access to the account, leave it the way it is - with DH and MIL on the account.  Or add yourself but leave MIL, if that truly is the last tie with DH.  In other words, why are you (or DH) expecting an older woman and mom to sever her last tie with DH, which you know she won't want to do … if it is a pyrrhic exercise.  Let her keep face and stay on the account.  I doubt she is going to come clean it out one day.  It just sounds to me like you are a bad DIL.  You want to squish MIL out - her worst fear as a single mom.  I would hate you too. [/quote]

Who are you people!?! Are you the mother in law?!? In no way shape or form is it okay for a mother to be on their grown up children's accounts. This is the role of the wife. Sever her last tie?? They are married and its their money not the mothers. For what it's worth I have my name on every single one of my DHs accounts. [/quote]

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