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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OK, PP, why do you care if the MIL is on the account if she doesn't access it?  Really, let her save that face.  If you think she thinks you are bad DIL because you want to be taken care of, meaning you want to have access to the account, leave it the way it is - with DH and MIL on the account.  Or add yourself but leave MIL, if that truly is the last tie with DH.  In other words, why are you (or DH) expecting an older woman and mom to sever her last tie with DH, which you know she won't want to do … if it is a pyrrhic exercise.  Let her keep face and stay on the account.  I doubt she is going to come clean it out one day.  It just sounds to me like you are a bad DIL.  You want to squish MIL out - her worst fear as a single mom.  I would hate you too. [/quote]

Why do I care?

I run a business. An effing business that I need to access the funds to RUN. My husband travels. How the hell do I access funds when he isn't in town? I don't. Which means work isn't completed on time and I can't do my job!

Was it a BAD idea of DH and myself to even put money into said account with her name on it? Absolutely. Would it be better if we just opened a new account? Absolutely again! The point of the thread wasn't so much the account or this particular situation but more so how my MIL acts and treats people when she feels threatened or upset. [/quote]

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