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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's probably hard for you to see, even as an adult now, that it was terribly inappropriate behavior on his part. If I found a college aged boy in my 9 yr old DD's bed, you bet I would kick him out! You are still looking at it from your 9 yr old self's mind. However, it is up to you how you want to proceed with him - any kind of relationship or not. You are an adult now. But try to understand where your parents were coming from back then.[/quote] NP here - very wise statement.[/quote] +2. This man's behavior was extremely inappropriate. You may not have been sexually abused, but convincing your parents otherwise is a losing proposition - if anything, I would validate their perspective re: protecting you. They absolutely did the right thing by kicking the man out. Secondly, I am not sure why you want to have a relationship with him now. There are enough red flags that I would stay away and keep my children away. [/quote]
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