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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I second what everyone else is saying. Your problem is, with kids 10 months old, you and your DH are still mentally in your "old" life, while your new reality is slapping you in the face. Don't worry; this is perfectly common and eventually -- like by the time the kids are a year or 18 months old -- you will gradually realize that yes, they are here to stay. That is a turning point moment. What is means is that you will drastically lower your expectations. You will realize that your weekends (and much of your other time, for that matter) is no longer about you. It will remain this way until the kids are about 4 and you will see a big improvement then. At that point, it may actually become fun, because they will be old enough to really do things that you will enjoy. Meantime, listen to the OP who says that now, you are just in survival mode. LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS and just go with the flow. This too, shall pass.[/quote]
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