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[quote=Anonymous]He needs to initiate more often and better. "Rejection" of the sort OP describes is only a problem when the high drive partner feels like they are on a starvation diet.

"I know you're hungry, but we can't eat now. We'll eat tonight." That's fine unless he's known famine in the past and knows that sometimes dinner never comes. He'll be wondering whether this is just a missed meal or the beginning of another famine.

As for romance - romance is good if it sparks desire. But, guys have to be taught that there is a difference between the kind of romance sold to us by the greeting card industry and the kind of romance that leads to sexual interest. Dinner and flowers might make the wife feel nice but it's generally not going to make her hungry for you.

But, touching her in ways that remind her that she's a sexy woman (like the small of the back) and not just a mom, is important. And the guy can't just say "wanna do it." You have to come on to your wife with actions instead of words.

Of course, if your wife isn't attracted to you in the first place; you're out of luck anyway. Sexual touch will be unwanted groping. Nonsexual touch will be ignored. Dinners and flowers will just leave you pissed because they didn't get you laid.

I'm rambling. [/quote]

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