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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]another woman here - not to defend the OP's wife, but would like to offer my perspective.   I have been married for 8 years, my DH is a good person and an AMAZING father, not the most amazing husband but not abusive or mean spirited.   Our sex life leaves a bit to be desired and I find that I'm mostly ignored both in the bedroom and otherwise.  I have found myself in the midst of a office flirtation that has not become anything more than that and to be quite honest, I enjoy the banter.   It's interesting, it's exciting and will it lead to sex?   nope.    That said, my husband is also very flirtatious by nature and flirts with women in front of me frequently, so I know that he would not be remotely bothered by my back and forth with this colleague.   He's not worried about us.    The only thing I actually think is suspect here is that your wife feels like she has something to apologize for.  I know a lot of married people and most of the flirt, at least mildly, with other people that are not their spouses.   The flirting isn't the problem.  You need to dig deeper.  [/quote]

I agree with this and am in a similar situation.  Would never cheat but the extra attention motivated me to hit the gym harder, adjust my diet and I'm down 10 lbs. [/quote]

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