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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know DCUM posters are very capable of this. When someone is down and out, being abused, and the like, I have seen some of the most compassionate and helpful posts to help a person in that alone moment. [b]I was disappointed to see the woman with the one year old who discovered her husband was cheating on her at massage parlors turned so ugly towards her it had to be locked. [/b]A person in one of the darkest moments of their life should receive nothing but compassion, especially where they are clearly the victim as was the case here. Please lets just take a moment to reflect on where it is possible for us to hold ourselves and each other to a higher standard of compassion. A little goes a long way. [/quote] This is a very interesting interpretation of the thread. Most of the thread was people doing detective work on that salon. The OP replied to the thread and confirmed he was cheating at 20:13 and asked for the thread to be locked at that time. There were two more responses - neither or them being ugly to her and then she posted again asking it to be locked and it was at 20:45. So how did it turn ugly after she found out he was cheating? There are threads that can get ugly - I don't see that one as one of them. It exposed an ugly truth but I didn't see anyone being mean to her. Until the very end no one knew if there had been cheating and it was locked soon after so there really was no opportunity to show compassion so I am not sure how you say this as a low standard of compassion?[/quote]
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