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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is her response when you say you've missed physical intimacy and how does she think you could work it back into your life together?

You have got to stop making the issue her running, she will just keep pushing back. Instead, focus on what YOU need (vs what you want her to change) and ask for her insight into solving the problem.[/quote]

I agree that you should stop trying to stop the running. This is something she enjoys which is healthy for her and has enabled her to do something many people find impossible -- to lose a significant amount of weight. Can you imagine if you found such an activity, and then she started complaining about it? Go back to counseling and work on the concept of compromise. You went with her on a running related vacation, now you should both go on a non-running related vacation (although understand that she will probably want to follow her regular fitness routine of a run each morning -- I know I do when on vacation). If she runs two races one weekend, do a date night the next weekend. [/quote]

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