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[quote=Anonymous]I would advise you to search the web for information. There are some good resources out there for spouses of people with BPD. I should let you know that BPD can look like other illnesses (PTSD; bipolar in some). So don't assume it is BPD.

The reactive way that you responded on here to suggestions from strangers is indicative of a problem. You are probably overwhelmed and exhausted. Anyone would be. But your free and fluent use of expletives at a rarely minor provocation is concerning. If you do that online, it's likely you are that reactive in real life.

It may be that you can create a calm and centered self (and then be a calm mother to your child) if you are not living with your DH. Having two very emotional and reactive parents is terrible for your child.

Put your own oxygen mask on and then you will be able to help your family.

And this forum is not the place, perhaps, for you to post. There are other forums for BPD and for spouses. Find people who understand. This forum is very general and people may not have firsthand experience with BPD. [/quote]

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