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[quote=Anonymous]OP, first and foremost I want you to understand there is a [u]huge[/u] difference between dropping the "F-bomb" when stubbing your toe and dropping it when yelling at your kid. A [b]huge huge[/b] difference. FYI, your husband is verbally abusing his children and you as well since you state he also talks this way to you when he is angry. Since you do have two children together, I would first suggest you sit down and talk to him one on one. A good time would be when he is in a calm mood and the children are not around. Make it a time when you are not rushed and can converse w/out distractions of any kind as this topic is vital to saving your family. Let him know that you love him and want to stay married to him, thus keeping the family intact. However, you cannot and [i]will not[/i] tolerate his verbal abuse toward you or your children any longer. Stat. If he doesn't curb it immediately, then you have no option but to leave him. Yes, you know it won't be easy, but you cannot raise your daughters in a verbally abusive home environment. This could be destructive in their future relationships and can damage their self~esteem in later years. As a mother, it is your responsibility to protect your children. Hopefully your husband will realize that his anger has been out of control and will see that it is a very serious issue. If he doesn't, I strongly advise you to stick to your guns and leave him. Abuse is abuse.[/quote]
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