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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Put yourself 25-30 years in the future when it is is you that your kids and their families want to avoid. Imagine how heartbreaking it will be, then suck it up be nice and understand family dynamics were formed long before you entered the picture and you aren't so perfect either. Good grief, I am sick of whiny women on here complaining about their mothers and mil. I suspect a big part of the problem rests with you and your expectations. It took me a long time to figure out that I was just as much at fault. I think a a lot of you need to grow up.[/quote] I'm sick of people saying you have to do X, Y or Z because it's 'family'. So what? If you want people to enjoy visiting you, don't be a jerk. Just because you find yourself at fault in your family dynamic doesn't mean someone else is. Family is what you create, not what you're born into.[/quote]
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