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[quote=Anonymous]You have a right to set boundaries. You have a right to expect people to treat you with respect and kindness as long as you do the same. You have a right to enjoy the holidays and do what works for your family's well-being, sanity and happiness. You know what your kids want more than anything? Happy parents who love them and aren't wasting energy fighting about toxic family members. If you suck it up and make yourself miserable so the kids can have the extended family experience they are likely not going to have pleasant memories. The best gift you can give them is parents who love them, treat them well, model healthy boundaries and who show them what a happy marriage can look like. My mother used to suck it up with toxic in-laws and it made us miserable seeing how they treated her and all the drama. Once my parents finally decided enough was enough we had enjoyable holidays that I remember with a smile.[/quote]
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