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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you're being just as strict as her parents. Have a talk with her to confirm she's having safe sex, offer to go with her to get testing and/or birth control and condoms, and have her invite the guy over for dinner so he can meet the family.

Be a good cousin! 
You DO realize that if you kick her out, she will move in with the boyfriend and the DH's cousin's parents will blame you, right? [/quote]

Err no. It's not your place to make sure a 22 year old is having safe sex. She's not a teenager, she's an adult. [/quote]

I spoke with my 85 year old grandfather about safe sex when he started dating after my grandmother had died. It's not about age. It's about reminding people  you love to be careful with their health and helping them to do that if they need it. [/quote]

Are you the sex police!?  What gives you the right to insert yourself in people's business like that?  I wouldn't feel that it was my right or business to discuss with a 23 year old. She's an adult and if her parents did their job then she already knows the birds and the bees. [/quote]

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