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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife and I have talked about splitting up so this topic is close to me. We have been together for over 20 years and see the world differently. The things we like to do, how we resolve conflict, and handle raising kids are way more apart than when we first met. Long story short, if she threw in the towel for any of the OP's reasons it would be extremely difficult for me emotionally but financially things would be OK. I have no interest in cheating her out of assets. We still love each other but [b]every day is a struggle[/b]. And I would not even think about dating. Might do some group therapy and on a casual basis start getting involved in some activities so I don't become isolated, which is easy for men to do because usually we don't have the support systems that women have.[/quote] This made me feel really sad for you. I hope you can either work through it with your wife or separate after the kids are gone b/c life is hard enough without the support of your spouse. My sense of security and wellness comes from knowing my husband is my life-partner who unconditionally loves me. I know he feels that same comfort and trust with me. You deserve this too, and if you can't find it with your wife I hope you can find it elsewhere.[/quote]
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