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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is immature to continue being friends with exes once you are married.[/quote]

No, actually quite the opposite.  It takes GREATER maturity to be able to still enjoy and appreciate what you liked about each other (other than the sexual part) while knowing what is appropriate and not given that you're in a committed relationship.

Further, I have always considered it a GOOD sign in a new guy if he's still friends with his exes.  That means he most likely wasn't psycho or mean and that they still like being around him.

My 2nd longest relationship next to my DH, at his wedding to his current wife there were 3 of his exes.  I stayed with him and his fiancée (now wife) several times over the years when I was still single.  My DH was invited to their wedding too.  I have met 2 of my DHs exes, and they were both very nice (had dinner with one).

It takes so much more maturity and health in your relationship to still be friends with exes than it does to cut off all platonic contact.

If your marriage is healthy and strong, what in the world is there to for from being friends with exes?  Only insecure or cheating spouses fear this.[/quote]

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