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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you sound really annoying.  First of all, your husband is rich and successful.  From what I can tell your "home based business" is just a way to keep you occupied.  Your "he's so talented" smugness is just unbearable.

Your brother sounds like he's doing what he needs to do and his wife is a teacher, not a prostitute.  They are doing fine.

You seem to think it is more awkward than your brother does.  If you are literally oozing money I agree with the other posters that you could gift it to your nieces' and nephews' 529 accounts.  But do so quietly, without expecting anything in return or a huge thank you.  You do it because you care about their family.  And not thinking "if it weren't for me they'd be homeless on the street without college," but just because it is something you do.
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You sound angry and bitter no offense. I think if anything sounds incredibly  kind and empathetic to even think this way. OP I think your gesture and consideration is wonderful. Maybe tell him once if he rebuffs you don't ask again. And I like the idea of saying they are miles that might expire so why doesn't he just "take them off your hands"...great idea. I was in a similar situation as my sister was married to a loser who ran them in the hole financially and it was hard for her to see us with the American dream. Thankfully she came to her senses, dumped him went back to get her masters and now has a fantastic job and just bought a new apt. It was a thrill for our entire family to see her doing so well! Kudos to you for your consideration to others and ignore the jealous haters.

Be there for him and let him know you are, but don't force anything upon him, you don't want to wound his pride.[/quote]

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