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[quote=Anonymous]Here's what I do: If I really like the person and value the friendship, I will continue to call or email or send invitations to get together for a little while. But, if they are always "too busy" and/or they never call me or invite me anywhere, after a while, I move on. In the past, my feelings have been hurt tremendously, esp. if I really wanted to remain friends and if we had been friends for a long time.  I would be baffled that we stopped socializing, esp. when we would run into each other at kids' events or the store and they would be so friendly.  I would think - gosh, I really enjoy talking to them and would love to get together, but if my overtures are never reciprocated, I move on.  The older I get, the easier this has been for me.  I think - well, I tried and obviously they aren't very interested in being or remaining friends with me.  It is sort of liberating.  I usually delete them from my FB account too because, well, if they don't want to be my friend in real life, I don't really need to see what they are up to anymore and my feelings are hurt much less when I don't see photos of parties, etc., that I am not invited to.  [/quote]

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