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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he is lying because when I told him that he didn't tell me, he completely lashed out and flipped out. Out of nowhere. I don't think he would be so quick to go on the offensive if it was an honest mistake.

Plus he has a history of lying w/this guy.[/quote]

This is the pp who asked why you think he's lying, not the nasty pp who also posted in response to your response.

It's possible that the anger is about something else. Maybe he really, really thinks he told you and he's as frustrated with you for not believing him as you are with him for not telling you. Or, maybe there is something else going on for him - stress at work, whatever. I don't think the history is necessarily predictive. From what you said about what was going on for you guys when that lying happened, you were both struggling to deal with a big change in your life. (New babies are hard for both parents!) He might have been freaking out and looking for an escape back then. It doesn't sound like that's where you are now.

If I were you, I'd try to cool it down and then, when you are both in a better place, talk about it. Show understanding. Try to see it from his perspective. He'll be more open to seeing your side if you show him you want to see his and that you're not looking for blame or condemnation.[/quote]

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