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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, I am stationed overseas on a 3-year assignment.  Last summer, during one of the rain storms, derecho or whatver it was that happened our basement flooded due to power failure.  Our sump pumps stopped working and the basement flooded.  Luckily our insurance paid to repair the finished basement.

However, DW is now complaining with the summer storm season coming on that this being the Washington area where power failures seem to be de rigeur for even the smallest thunderstorm, that our basement will inevitably flood when the power goes out yet again. She wants to install a backup system.  I agree, but the question comes down to how to pay for it.  I know for a fact that she took at least $5K from the insurance payout and squirreled it away in her own account.  When I raise with her that this money can be used to pay for the backup system, she cried this is her "compensation."  So, at this point I am basically saying that I agree we need a backup system, but that the responsibility for paying for it needs to come out of that remainder of insurance money because "that is what it is for."  If the basement floods again, she will need to accept responsibility.

Frankly, I do not understand her thinking that this insurance money is her "compensation."  However, she either needs to decide whether she wants to keep that money - which is not hers to begin with - or whether she wants to prevent the basement from flooding again. I do not understand her stubborness, but she needs to put on her big girl pants and start acting like an adult and not expect me to cave in and give her what she wants.  [/quote]
You sound like a dick.[/quote]

He sounds like a slight one....his tone is "jerkish"....but his wife sounds like an entitled spoiled brat.  She sis not like having to deal with the flood last summer?  Fine!  Take steps to make sure it does not happen again.  That's what responsible adults do.  But you cannot complain about dealing with the flood AND complain about spending the money to make sure it does not happen again. [/quote]

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