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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the added insights. I personally agree that Sarah's moodiness is within the realm of normal teen issues and much of the problem lies with Wanda. Wanda however had no parenting modeling herself and has only really gotten her own life together in the past 3 years. She has worked really hard at being a good parent recently however given her past, and her rate of learning and progress, becoming a great parent will take decades. She is trying and asking questions and getting help but the putting it into practice when Sarah is giving her attitude is definitely a work in progress. Sarah knows what buttons to press and can be pretty mouthy but in a very young, immature way - she is a very young 12. If Sarah being on BCPs did improve her moods then it would benefit all of them as there would be less conflict, and fewer consequences for Sarah (who is always in trouble). My fear though is that Wanda has convinced herself that the moodiness is hormone / menstrual related and that if the BCPs don't improve her mood...then what? Sarah is anemic so maybe potentially the BCPs could help with that as well (although the anemia is long standing and not from blood loss). Obviously a doctor needs to be involved however Wanda doesn't trust really anyone and feels she knows Sarah much better than a doctor who only sees her on rare occasion. She knows she has to see a doctor to get a prescription, she just thinks if she can tell the doctor that they tried the pills and it worked, the doctor will take her seriously and understand. [/quote]
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