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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do not put yourself out (baby-sitting, pet-sitting, meal-paying, etc) for these people. You are funding their cancellation fees and new gizmos right now. Is that how much you are worth to them? [/quote] I sort of agree. You need to really LET GO. I only mean in your head - of their actions and their consequences for their actions. Let them make their mistakes and feel those consequences. Do not follow them around with a mattress to fall on. Sure, as a friend, you can babysit from time to time, but a whole freaking week? You're not the grandparents, I mean, that's sort of outrageous in my opinion. I would stop paying for everything, and I would not babysit for more than an evening for these people. They are freaking certifiable. Frankly, I would find new friends too and let them fade out.[/quote]
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