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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Long story short, I recently became friendly with a few moms from my daughter's school. It's only been a few months so I don't consider them close friends yet. Now summer is here and they also have seen our pool in the back yard. I think they expect to be invited to come swim with the kids over the summer. The problem is I really don't feel comfortable with the idea. I have three kids, and the other moms also have other younger kids. While I may be ok with having just 1-2 more kids to come swim together, I really don't feel good about having younger children (under 5 maybe?) for safety concerns. Plus some of these moms are even closer friends, and they always do things together. I can't imagine inviting only one family at a time to solve the problem, but having mor than one family and at lease 4-6 extra children besides on own at a time sounds crazy to me! I need advice! [/quote] Why is this even an issue for you? Just don't start inviting this strata of people over! pretty simple, right?[/quote]
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