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[quote=Anonymous]Obnoxious. But, OP, no one can take advantage of you without your permission. Tell them that this arrangement isn't working for you and that the nanny and DC will not be available next week. Perhaps tell them that you are happy to arrange a few dates per month when it works for your whole family, if you are amenable to that. And if they object, just say "I'm sorry this upsets you, but this arrangement is not working for my family." If they continue to protest, say "Please let the issue rest." Have your husband present, and he needs to back you up. If he doesn't, tell him that from now on when you come home from work to a house full of inlaws, you are going to take the baby and check into a (expensive) hotel for some peace and quiet. Follow through. [/quote]
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