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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm soooooo sorry for your loss...and this just rubs salt in your wounds.  I myself am so over the "you're so lucky to have free time" card...like there is anything you wouldn't do to not have the flexibility to go on a night out with your DH!!!

And since this is someone who is in your life for the long haul, and given the finality of your RE's recent opinion, I do agree that it might make sense to address it.  But since this is primary a connection through your DH, can he address it with his brother?  That might come off better since they have the pre-established relationship.  And he can also couch it in how it hurts his feelings as well.

I know that my DH's family (who more or less know the details of our treatments etc) often check with him before reaching out to me...just to make sure timing is good etc.  I know it may feel tempting to want a completely open relationship with your in laws, but that doesn't seem possible in this case...so making your husband a shield may help (and prevent you from saying something that however justified could start a ruckus with his family).[/quote]

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