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[quote=Anonymous]I wonder if the problem is the nanny. If this is a person who needs personal care, who cannot manage her own hygiene, I don't see any problem farming that out to someone else. The mother is neglectful in not overseeing the process but if this is something she can't handle, make sure there is someone who can, especially if this is the only concern. The daughter is very attached to her mother so I think the suggestion of taking custody is misguided. There is a bond there. Maybe if OP's DH approaches his ex in a problem-solving tone rather than an accusatory tone -- she has this problem, what can we both do to solve it? -- they could come up with a solution. But if it becomes " you are taking poor care of our daughter" you won't get anywhere.[/quote]
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